My trip to Korea (2005 - 2009) was a personal journey to discover what life is like on the other side of the world. Stateside now and having found the love of my life, this blog is sure to go quiet for long stretches at a time but may see a sprinkle of disjointed topics, thoughts that pass through my mind, and perhaps bits and pieces of being in love with my husband. Welcome!
Monday, June 23, 2008
been six days
what if i have to leave to get over the best mistake i ever made?
4 comments:
Anonymous
said...
you don't think of it as a bad mistake so where's the problem?
The problem is, for which I wish there were a different solution, that eventually the negatives out weighed the positives. Despite how positively positive the positives were, I could no longer enjoy them as the negatives starting taking shape and multiplying. And for something that already had an imposed pre-defined expiration date, I saw no gain in sticking around to have all the glorious memories replaced by miserable ones. At the time of this writing, the ratio is 3:1 in the favor of glorious memories and I’d like to take that deal home with me so that when I go to sleep at night I have a smile on my face and not pain in my heart.
4 comments:
you don't think of it as a bad mistake so where's the problem?
The problem is, for which I wish there were a different solution, that eventually the negatives out weighed the positives. Despite how positively positive the positives were, I could no longer enjoy them as the negatives starting taking shape and multiplying. And for something that already had an imposed pre-defined expiration date, I saw no gain in sticking around to have all the glorious memories replaced by miserable ones. At the time of this writing, the ratio is 3:1 in the favor of glorious memories and I’d like to take that deal home with me so that when I go to sleep at night I have a smile on my face and not pain in my heart.
what would you have done sarah?
i understand - there's no such thing as the perfect relationship.
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